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Hey D4ML, don't forget to go to my thread and post--you are getting good at this, and I love when you add your insight!

you are too kind, lauraoh.

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You are so funny, girl. You sound like 2 different people. There is the girl that posts to me, and there is the one here.

it is weird.
last week, i was helping some poor guy out on newcomers. and i never post advice on anybody's thread. the reason why i don't post advice is because i have to walk the walk before i talk the talk. i can't tell someone to do something and not do it or believe it myself. i am a person of integrity. so the only advice i would give is if i believe/do it myself. otherwise, it's just lip service and i could be doing harm rather than helping someone's sitch.

the real me would be tough like sandi2. i can be very blunt and hard on someone. and i'm trying not to be that way. but i always have the best intentions for people.

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Smile, help someone, be positive, and get back to that person that was here a couple of weeks ago--the compassionate, confident one.

yeah, i need to get back to the basics once again.

i will get back to the basics and start some new GAL work.

i saw myself retreat back to my old self - hence the different person.

i'll go back to your thread. infidelity is addictive. but it's like a train wreck and you can't look away.