Well, I'll tell you one thing. It's nice to see that your friends will have your back if it happens to you.
I have been very careful to avoid her finding this site, but not very careful about my profile info or my posts. I have never made any reference to geting outside help, but she knows I'm a researcher so I'm sure she knows I'm reading. If she ever suspected, she'd sniff this place out in short order. She's wicked smart (one of the things that I find attractive in her)
Maybe time to get a few more kids and move to Wisconsin. I have a good friend there anyway.
A major feature of this place is the ability to be totally honest and open. (Also to vent the pressure so you don't accidentally submarine yourself in person) I can't see ANY advantages of her infiltrating the line.
Cheers.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs