I chose the road less traveled by #31

[kat727]

Thanks Laura! I know he isn't anything like what he was when we first got married, had the kids. Life does wear on you. It is so easy to get into a rut and so hard to get out.

He told me once after the affair started, that love shouldn't be hard. It should be easy with no work involved, that is how he knows this is really love. Yes, he became an idiot.

I really do see the wrong turns I made here and there. I carried a lot of the R by myself for a long time. I stopped asking for his opinion because he never knew what he wanted, so I would just get it done. I never wanted to be both roles in our house...it just happened that way. I have learned an awful lot along the way. I am going to take those lessons with me.

kat