A new day ... or something equally cliche ....

[Truegritter]

But I will hit that button every time she crosses the boundary whether it drives her further away or not.

This is the part of boundaries people like to forget.

You must be prepared for the consequence good or bad (which is relative to what you want)

We should want to be healthy and have a healthy M.

Sometimes that is not so clear that the only way to get there is through what you do for self.

Which includes boundaries along the way.

Steady, I love that whole post.

Thanks.

And PEI thanks for bringing it over here.