I don't think I wasted a good one. I might not have knocked it out of the park, but no plan survives contact with the enemy...
Follow through on that promise doesn't mean cutting her out of my life. It means listening to her, letting her do what she feels she needs to do, and me doing what I need to do.
She's the one who brought up more MC. That she thought it was very helpful.
My goal wasn't to get her to move out. Or to stay. It was to tell her that she's been heard; that I know what she's feeling.
And she responded better than anything else I've done. She opened up to me, asked me questions about us that she needed to know.
If she really doesn't know what she wants to do, then is me pushing her out the Right Thing? Forcing a crisis? I'm not sure about that.
