"WS, I finally get it... You don't love me the way a woman should love her man. I keep trying to win your love and you don't really love me back and are NOT in love with me. I finally get it.. I don't know what has taken me so long.. Guess I need to be hit over the head with a 2x4 sometimes. Well WS, I DO get it now. I am going to stop trying to win you back. I am going to stop trying to show you how much I love you. Matter of fact I don't know how I feel about you anymore either. I agree that this isn't going to work between us because I want to be with a woman who I love and with one who loves me back. It obviously isn't you."
And THEN you follow through on that promise... She has NOW finally felt heard. This is when you MAY get your chance. stop trying the "method of the day" and stick to what works.
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And THEN you follow through on that promise...
Wow. You wasted a good one.
Seems to me all you were successful in was spinning your wheels and backing down. You accomplished what? You got your wife to tell you she is unsure of what she wants and that she doesn't know how to get her feelings for you back (I could have told you that) and a glimpse of her skinny butt? Cat Whisperer? Before you go trying the Robx speech next go to the Piggly Wiggly and get some cat litter for a little traction on that ice your tires are spinning on....
You should have persuaded her. "Wife. This is not working. I am not happy the way things are. I don't think a weekend will be enough time for us. You are right about moving out." She needs a crisis in order to start figuring things out for herself.
??? Great job ??? Right Track ??? Positive changes ????
From peewee football: Noone should be talking but the coach. Who's doing the talking? Coach! Now all of you run to the fence and back for talking. lol.
Originally Posted By: coach
Do you understand now why you need to let her go and agree with her? You are standing in her way of feeling better. Enough of trying to fight her feelings they are real.
Sure you love her more than ever, Pinhead. That is because you can't have her. Barely even hold her hand. It's human nature to want what you can't have. But that does not mean you are doing the right thing by her.
Butt... if you are going to start something you might as well finish it, since you really can't go repeating the same speech every night, and PUSH. Have a baby sitter set up and a date planned and somethings to talk about other than relationships and moving out.
