This thing is going to get really ugly. Don't sink. Don't get baited. When you walk into that courtroom, be all Sunshine and Light, but definately have your ducks in a row. It sounds like you do. I hate it that your kids are being subjected to her BS, but with the evidence of her stellar performance I hope justice gets served. If so, soon you'll be back in the drivers seat.
Good luck man.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs