I don't get to say a word. And he has D13 in the middle of everything. I do the NC and then he will do something a few weeks later I think to push my buttons so I will contact him even though he won't respond.
H has gone completely dark now, so looks like things are getting worse instead of better. He has been dark since the beginning of June.
Is this the normal of a MLC'er to do after this long?
First when he left we argued a lot, then got a long, talked sometimes about kids and jobs. Sent jokes through texts and now nothing at all. It really slowed down and then came to a stop after we were together in March for a few hours and he talked about dating each other.
I do also know through our D13 that his family has been saying to him just to divorce me already and get it over with, so I know how he is or should I say was and is probably discussing things with them and they are telling him to move on so this must mess him up also. And to think, this was the family that wanted me to marry him so badly. Our D13 also said she doesn't understand that when he gets sad and sits and drinks and doesn't talk to anyone that no one asks him what's wrong. This part of his family didn't speak to him for 12yrs. and now he runs to them a year after our separation and they are his life and me and the kids are nothing. I just don't get it.
I really thought he was seeing the light a little bit with offering to help with grocery money and soccer and not signing a lease this time and a couple of other little things but I guess I was wrong.
So down again, I was feeling better the week before last and now it's like he did a complete turn around the following week.
