People often mistake change for progress. Without an eye toward likely future consequences, it's very possible to make change that is going backward.
We see this often with WAS that go on a self-destructive bent when they leave their marriages: they may be changing, but sometimes they are definitely not making progress.
On the other hand, we see LBSs who refuse to embrace change who just get stuck, and this can turn into a fruitless excercise with mounting legal fees, cancelled non-refundable "romatic" vacations that are ill-conceived attempts at rekindling the flame of romance when there is nothing left there, and so on.
In the latter case, embracing change--within reason and with an eye always toward efforts likely to yeild positive results--is the best path to progress.
In my personal case, I think I fall into the latter category. There is nothing left to be gained from not embracing the change, and there is much to be lost (time, money, peace of mind) by resisting change.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
