For what it's worth, my W took no meds during or after childbirth to deal with (or even spoke with a doctor regarding post-partum) and then, about the time the bomb dropped, had an ovary and fallopian tube removed due to a cyst.
Again, hasn't taken anything for that either or sought medical follow up
As a NORMAL human, if it were me, I'd be concerned about physiological imapact on my behaviour and health.
Her? Not so much. And now we're "riding the rollare coaster"
Fun, huh?
G'morning Bear ... I'm gonna call you out on this one.
This is a common thought among people who don't undertand mental illness. It was my belief until I experienced it. Depression, whether post-partum or not, is not 'sadness' and is very difficult for the sufferer to recognize or acknowledge. Really. So, that being said ... I would highly recommend you do some reading in this area ... forget the "save my marriage" books for now. Work on your compassion by learning what you can about Depression.
Oh, and get off the superiority train too ... the whole "I would do this but NOT her" thing won't serve you ... and you know it
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
