As far as the being attracted to to certain people, I also thought of something equally pertinent. Consider how many people surf this board and our threads.
And yet maybe only a half dozen will post and watch yours. They must be seeing/sensing "something" that compels them to stick around.
Sometimes... I wonder if the board itself is the final stumbling block to personal evolution.
Now... don't get me wrong. It doesn't have to be this way, and some people who leave it only leave because they have reconcilled or found somebody knew and have stopped evolving, but sometimes I wonder... if sticking around and discussing other peoples' problems and perhaps our own problems is just another way of staying stuck.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
