Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[LRT Land]

MM - it is so hard to go through all of this with young children. It helps me to read other threads and see how hard others are working too to get through all of this.

I think you are doing a good job at looking inward and improving yourself. It does seem like dropping the rope may help in your situation. I did it for a while while I did my 180s and GAL, and it helped. The new wrinkle has upset the apple cart again, but because it's either the second time in a couple months or because of his reaction to this precious subject I feel even more strongly that I need to take care of me and let the chips fall where they may.

My H often struggles between wanting to be single and enjoying all his hobbies and several women to satisfy his high sx drive (though who he's going to find to date in his 50s I'm curious about) and wanting to be married with children. They need to decide for themselves and we need to let them. Be your best and if he comes around then he's still the right husband for you. Try not to chase or talk about the R. Live YOUR life.