(((Punkin))) honey, one thing you have to realize is that MLC isn't a process that resolves quickly. The reason you are down is that you had expectations when you sent that email.
Your H is in no frame of mind at this point but to see you as the enemy. That's his burden to bear, not yours. You did what you had to do to protect yourself financially. He doesn't realize this yet but you protected him too.
If/when you decide to divorce him and he goes ahead with that kind of deal there won't be anything you can do, but at least it won't affect your financial future.
A wise person advised me to separate the business from the emotional. Punkin you took care of the business end. The emotional end will change sometimes day to day.
Dust off little lady. You did what you had to do to take care of you. YOU are the only one who can right now.
