Hi Cas,

I have been following along with your current events without posting. However, I want to tell you I am with you in thought and support.

I see a tremendous change in your H from days of old. I think you are doing everything right.

I, like you, have learned a great deal over the past few years about this process. For those of us who have our feet firmly planted in our values and are dedicated to standing for our marriages, and not initiating a divorce, do eventually get to see a difference in our H's. Our H, the H we knew, not the H he became in his crisis.

Patience is the key. We are fortunate to have re-created our friendships.

Things look very good for you, Cas.

Take care, ((()))

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11