There are quite a lot of people on this forum who have been to Retrouvaille. Is it an American thing? I had never heard of it before, but sounds really, really good.
I think you should pop over to Piecing and check out some threads there. It's people who are piecing their marriage back together again. I think you are headed in that direction. The people over there give each other support and tips along the way, and of course it doesn't stop us old friends from dropping in.
No rush BD, you are good here for now :-)
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369