Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[Piano]

My IC had a weird suggestion: write back to WH ...from baby's perspective!
"What would she tell him or ask him?"
My reply: Um, "Where are you, Dad?"

I don't think really think I/we need to go there. IC must be having an OFF day. Trying to get me to see this from bub's perspective - for e.g. will she be upset with me one day for asking him not to write or not giving her the letters.

I've decided to plough ahead and tell him that I would prefer it if he didn't write and put the responsibility of when and how to share the letters with her onto me.