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Thanks MM. There's always something to make in the house. Even order pizza or chinese. We ended up taking the chicken over to my brother's house and they made pizza so we all ended up eating together.

My S told me tonight he wants to spend as much time with his mom and me. It's funny at their ages how they seem to switch things around based on which direction the wind is blowing.

When I went home to swap with my W my D was very upset. Kept saying and crying she wanted to stay with her mom. She even told me she hates me, I laughed and told her that's ok. She was fine after about 10 minutes or so. They had just spent the past week with my W.

My D made another comment tonight. We were talking about how we used to something together around the house and she said, "Can we go back to that?" I asked, "Back to what?" "Back to when me, my brother, you and mommy used to do things all together." I told her I know honey. It's ok. (Distraction works great)

I do feel bad for her. These are things and questions she has to deal with at 4. She's not even supposed to be even thinking about this stuff or having the emotional turmoil my kids have at their age. It sucks and it breaks my heart.

Anyway, they're both asleep upstairs and I'm taking care of household stuff.