Are you envisioning a reconciliation where it's not a problem for him if you treat his mother coldly?
during the marriage, she cried to get her way and lied about me to my h (said i was mad and mean to her when i wasn't).
after h declared it was over, she took liberties at me and was disrespectful towards me in my own home.
things like that, would have to stop. reconciliation doesn't mean that i'd be sacrificing my self-worth to be a doormat to h and his family. i will not do that for my h or for my m.
