a few of your words were triggers--something right there just under the surface. "struggle." "victim." "connection." sometimes they come along at just the right time.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012