And after reading your latest reply - you're absolutely right! I was worried about it being wrong to ask. Well - not "wrong, wrong" but in a DBing way, wrong - if that makes sense.
However, since he is supposed to now be working on the M, I have a right to ask. It may not be a good marriage at the moment, but if we're working towards a healthy R, then yes, by all means, there should be trust being built.
