thanks for flipping on a few dozen lightbulbs for me. e.g.: defining myself by my circumstances. a lifetime of being other-focused. connecting. rediscovering passion(s).
in the early days of connecting with xH, there was a persistent little voice in the back of my head: "but what about me?" ...one of a series of red flags I should have recognized but didn't. and so I disappeared and...now me.
you just blew me outta the water. and at a very good time.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
