Dealing with the kids and there disappointments with there mother always leaves me wondering if I handle she sich correctly. My kids tried to call there mom several times yesterday but never talked to her. When we got home from the fair last night there mother left a message for the kids to call her on her cell phone. D10 called and she did not answer d10 became very angry and started to vent she said " I can't believe mom doesn't have time her own kids". She then said " they (the kids) should be more important than whatever moms doing. She said it's not right they are probably out with his kids and she won't talk to me" I will not lie and cover up for there mom sometimes it's best not to say anything.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
Three hours until I have to take the kids home that is always the worst time ever. The kids want to go play miniature golf so we ate going to do that. Tonight after I from off the kids I am going to meet a old girl friend for a drink not sure if this is good but those are my plans
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
Journaling I wish that I could wave a magic wand and make all this go away, I wish the STBEXW could see all the pain she is causing the kids, it would be nice to see one ounce of remorse, but thats not going to happen. So I hope and pray to that the courts will make a wise decision and give me my kids, before they are damaged beyond repair. I am glad she keeps posting dirt on herself on facebook the lawyer told me today that she has dug herself a deep hole, I realy hope he is telling me the trouth and knows what he is talking about.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
After a wild parting week she could not wait to get all the stuff posted on FB, and yes the screen shots are printed and at my lawyers office.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
The STBEXW just called and left a voice mail that we have parent orentation tonight @ 5:30 at the twins school, Oh I really dont want to see her tonight. On the bright side I get to see my kids but no matter how much I try to get away from her it still feels like a kick in the stomache every time I have to interact with her.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
I made it through the parent orientation with out losing my cool I did not speak to her not even hi. After the last week and all of the crap I just don't want to deal with her now maybe not ever.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
you guys have kids together, you need to buck up, I am in tx as well, thats why I used that term. It is tough, we are all in a tough place, but you need to man up and deal with what is going on. For you and your kids, I dont like my sitch either, but you have to live your life for you and your kids. Dont let her get the best of you. When kids are involved you have to be strong for them, you have to be their rock, period. Dont pout, sulk or be angry in front of her, you could have used this interaction to your advantage and been happy and giddy, its ok that you didnt but think about it. You need to SHOW her you are moving on>>>>>> I have been here for 10 years, with first W, busted D then backslid to no return. Back 3 years ago with 2nd W and busted it again, to be here again I would say I am a lifer here. I am not as technical as others, but I will comment when I see things that are out of whack!!!!
dsh you probably are right this is one emotional roller coaster with no end in sight.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
