Yes, I need to protect and care for myself and my baby. Learning more about that in the book "Put Your Big Girl Panties On". (I posted more about that in my Newcomer's thread).

Right now I believe these letters are unhealthy (for me & maybe for bub) so I will find a way to nicely put a stop to them.

Off to my child/mother psychiatrist today. Will show him the letter and see what he thinks.

H's action are misguided if not ill intended. He really needs to sort out his issues with the help of a profesional, not continue to expose them to me and our 3 month old .


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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