Recapping events over the past couple of nights...
Thursday, August 19: Mr. A and I talked by phone and he invited me on a date for Sunday. We didn't have firm plans but said we would get together.
Saturday, August 21: I'd not heard from Mr. A and was getting antsy about whether or not our "date" would happen.
Saturday/Sunday (8/21-8/22): Mr. A said he wanted to come over and I said ok. We ended up spending a long time together. It was fun. A LOT of fun!
Today I was a zombie at work. Truthfully, I didn't care! I can afford a zombie day every once in awhile.
As mentioned, I've given up my boundary about not taking Mr. A's call if it's late at night. If I can't take it seriously myself, then I can't impose it seriously upon him. Truth is, I don't mind the late night calls. Maybe I'm weird, but I think they're fun! I mean, I was just SLEEPING and then I get to cuddle, snuggle, whatever??? I'll take it!
To me, it's like having a hard day at work and wishing you had plans to unwind after. Then a friend calls you at the last minutes and says, Let's get some nachos! Would I say, Oh, friend should have called me earlier if she wanted nachos. NO! I would say, Heck yes, I've been craving nachos all day!
