Do you ever remind him about how much you assisted him through grad school? Now, it's time to pay the piper ... although, I know he probably won't care a hoot. Definitely a taker, not a giver, unless he can get something out of it.
yes, actually awhile back I had to borrow $75 because of an unexpected expense, and he refused; I reminded him of this. and yes, he's the essence of a taker.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
just came across a really promising job opening--a trauma prevention/education position at a hospital that's getting accredited as a Level II trauma center. I have all the qualifications, and then some. and it's something I'd really enjoy. since it's a nursing position, the salary would have to be relatively reasonable, especially because of all the experience they're asking for. and...I have connections there, someone who knows the trauma surgeon and his nurse.