Exposed finally,,limbo land

[Optimust]

Yes I did take her to dinner on our anniversary. Sorry, just a weak moment.

I did go off on her a bit about keeping D8 away from him. D8 told me she wants to stay with me in the event of a D. Good stuff, but she is 8? Judge will probably decide, if we don't.

So what would the effect be, good or bad, if I were to destroy some of OM’s life, such as reputation, friendships, jobs etc?

Seems I would probably put W into defensive mode for him?

There is a possibility that I might be able to put a dent in their relationship via exposure of other relationships he has with other women?