You went away on a weekend that has been a tradition for you and your H. You are about to make a huge life change by going back to work after staying home for a year. Both events are substantial things that can make your mind take pause.
Wow, thank you, CG! That makes a lot of sense actually. I don't know about the yard. I don't care. Really, I don't. There is no grass to mow or worry about. I won't be living there past next year. So if he is going to do something about it, it is his problem.
But thanks for your suggestion!
As for a reply from zoobrew...still nothing but I think I am going to stop reporting about what goes on between zoobrew and I. Sorry--guess I want some privacy after all, even though I was the one to post everything!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004