To have her way! Look, she's calls you an AH when you don't bow down to whatever she says. Do what you think needs done and don't try to please her. Pleasing one another should be done when you are in a loving R, not getting a D.
Sandi, At this stage obviously I am doing what needs to be done and am taking care of myself. She is friendly sometimes but anytime it turns to any point of contention her anger shows through.
My strategy is to stick to my guns but try to difuse any arguments by explaining why i am taking the decisions I take. I do not make any choices for the express purpose of either punishing her or delaying her departure so after i explain myself she usually calms down.
Is this it from a DB point of view. I guess any move on the R front has to come from her and there is nothing left for me to do correct ?
