Detaching is the path through this. I had to go completely dark for a time to finally push through.
I won't be able to go completely dark until a separation Agreeent is done. And since there are no current difficulties with our "verbal agreement" I am tending to stick with "Let W do it if this is what she wants" If the sitch changes, I'll fast track it. I'll state it as a boundary "I will abide by the verbal agreement as long as you do. If you break this trust (too), I will fast track the Sep Agreement myself"
Originally Posted By: Truegritter
And it is a process CD. You are not going to get there tomorrow. The only way through is to do it. No short cuts. No magic pills.
