My job is going to crap, and the office branch is closing down in less than a year.(Joy)
The good: Found another job that is a shoe in. I have connections and could get hired to fill the position.
The Bad: This is moving us about 1.5 to 2 hours away to where OM was living. W said to get the job as it is a job. She really has no clue geographic wise to the where abouts on the relation of the two cities, with the exception that they are both in the same state.
I did tell her I want the job, but given the circumstances, I didn't feel comfortable about the move. Its not that W would run to him, it that slight possibility that W and OM could run into each other. I know some other sitch's have EA or PA occuring in the same town. Should I even let this get to me? Should I do what's best for the family(job and financial wise) and continue to DBing? We are doing good in working on the marriage, but its still so soon given what has happened. Argh....
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
