Newer Game- Moving Forward

[CD Bear]

Thanks again, Wonka. This post snapped me out of it.

Here were the kickers-

no movement from W is driving you batty. Which means...don't act on those feelings. Be SMART in DBing. Don't make it wasy on the W regarding D since SHE wants it and let her do the D stuff. And you have not given DBing enough time to take effect

Remember my caution that WASes move at a glacier pace.

Yep on the fixing and double yep on the impatience.
back to the SMART and leaving the "itch" to act on feelings in the garage.

And why VVVVVVVVVV

she is feeling the stress and pressure of living with the 23-year old OM & his ragtag family, starting a new job, and paying for OM's schooling. And she remembers your WOA!!! That slow dribble of WOAs from you will go a long way in W's mind and the contrast between you and OM is starting to emerge in her mind (even though she is not telling you anything or giving any indications). Ye be sure that she defnitely is mentally taking notes of you during all of your interactions (phone calls, convos, texts and exchanges)!

And on the "moving forward" part of the show....

General Questions for CD:

1) When was the last time W was in your house?
2) Which rooms did she enter during the last visit?
3) When did she move out of the house?

1-While I was on holiday with D. Last week of July
2-I know she was in "her" bedroom (the spare) as the bedding (room for one only) was pulled back. To get there she would have had to see everything else in the house-laundry (likely came through garage); kitchen; past the master and to her room.
3-She was rarely there in July at all. Maybe 4 or 5 times. And not while I was there at all after the exposure. She came once and that was the "confrontation/I won't live in an open M.." (that was a few days before I left for vacation) She hasn't been back except that one day while I was gone. Likely grabbed some clothes; ran them through the laundry; may have napped during. Best guess.

And the car models have replaced the frou-frou glass stuff on the kitchen cabinet end display nook.

Thanks again, Wonka.