To Tell or Not to Tell

[LRT Land]

You guys are the best. So many caring souls here.

For being a smart girl, I feel pretty foolish to be in this spot. And not just the late age pg, but the M strife, the secret account, the almost divorce (which is unresolved).

One thing I can't bring myself to do is go to the sites that show you what the fetus looks like at 2 wks, 4 wks, etc. what I do wonder, is if I go along with H's decision will our M fail anyway because I will feel resentment? I do need clarity. And lots of wisdom.

And I thank you all for the comfort, because that is not happening at home.