arrrrrggghh. got a note from D14's first period teacher--she's been late every morning except the first morning. today is the only other day I've driven her to school--she's been with xH otherwise, and she had plenty of time this morning but is still struggling with the locker. according to xH--"I've run into a boatload of construction every morning." he lives across town from us--as close as possible to OW#1 and still inside the county.
then I get a call from D14 on arrival home; she got in trouble for not having the right brand of uniform shorts. she wore these khakis last year to her other school without issues; they're exactly like uniform pants except less expensive. xH had a late meeting, can't take her to the uniform store before it closes (because, of course, these things are not open during convenient hours because they just don't have to be!!) so I'm going to have to do that--and he's yelling at me because I'm not providing her pants and he bought her 3 shirts!!! uhhh--hello!! why does he think he's doing us a favor??!!
oh, and btw--he made sure I knew not to count on him to help me out at all until I get a job. so don't even think along those lines. this, from the man I supported through grad school and residency--3 years.
just had to vent. wonder why I keep needing to change blood pressure meds???
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012