I don't think men are poor listeners, we are poor responders to who we are communicating with. We respond to a woman like we are dealing with another man. It's like trying to train your cat using all of your dog knowledge.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.