Thanks Blue,

As I have said before, her dad is enabling her with money, but he wont do it forever. She is not working today and as an employee at the daycare for8 bucks and hour and a massage therapist who only gets paid when she gets clients booked, I dont know how she will do it in the long run. I hope she makes it, but at the same time things are tight for me as well. I will not put anything at her place that I care she goes through. She is very civil to me lately, and I think brings up reasons for me to come over, like last night which I squeezed out of.

I am staying strong on the no contact, and she is still testing me, when she knows i am coming over she always makes herself look good, she looked very good this morning and yesterday. I did not comment on it, I never do, dont know if saying she looks nice would be a 180 now or not?

OR do I even bother with trying to save the M anymore, if you have followed my sitch she has moved pretty quick in the last 2 months.