Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[Dagny-2]

My friends are giving me grief that he is cake-eating since I still do everything around here and I need to let him take care of himself so he can 'appreciate me'. Thoughts on this?

This stuck out to me, I think we have to be careful in not making decisions to try and manipulate how they feel/think. We have no control over what they think or feel as we have so painfully found out. If you want to do the laundry, tell him, I want to do it. Simple, to the point. But that goes with all the other choices, what do you want? But that said, I guess the whole DBing is maniuplating them to a degree. But I still think we need to state what we want and not make choices based on guessing how they feel. Now that I wrote this, I'm just more confused!

How is The Mission going?

Dagny