I think "setting them free" is a choice we have to make over and over. We make the decision and are firm about it, but something happens and we might waiver, but we have to re-affirm to ourselves that we are setting them free. I think it is too much to expect that it will "take" on the first try, but it is something to keep striving for. Aren't we too good for crumbs at this stage of our lives?????

Dagny


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW