I know how much this must have hurt. You did a great job IMO. I think one must have children to truly understand the pain one feels when you have a conversatioin like this.
Now...you have admitted your mistakes - forgive yourself and forget them.
You have spoken your truth and set your boundaries - now live them.
You have let go - now keep steppin...
Your angry and I know it. Let that anger out. Let it propel you. Let it feed you drive. Then accept.....yes accept...that you girlfriend ROCK. You are a very strong women, you are a compassionate person. Let that compassion show thru your actions toward your H. THat is not to say be a doormat - no what I am saying is that you have already spoken to your H. Now leave him be. Eric
Agree 100%. I call it "giving grace." The way you treat your spouse from this point forward will keep the door open to any possible future reconciliation, and say a lot about you as a person as well, PEI.
