hate and respect aren't actions though...

That's the point... This is how parents maintain their children's support... chidlren tell parents they hate them all the time, but they come around.... why?

Becuase a good parent knows how to set and assert boundaries in the home without losing their children's respect...

Look at police offiers who give people speeding tickets.. people don't LIKE getting the ticket, but they don't disrespect hte policeman if they were indeed speeding and just got caught...

They are angry at the time, but the pay the fine and suck it up...

Respect and Hate aren't counter opposed...

Hate is temporary, it does pass