You can stand in the middle on the tallest box and wear the medal that reads "I did not cheat"
I think H understands that now very clearly too.
Keep that medal and hold on to it. You earned it.
Show it to your children later.
Oh, bite me, TG. That's SO unfair, and just so NOT HELPFUL to PEI at a time when she's ALREADY HAD THIS TALK with her kids, and ALREADY MADE this speech to her husband.
How about checking the DB ideology at the door, and just SUPPORTING her for 24 hours, before taking that kind of a shot???
There's a time for challenging, and a time for support.