Thanks guys, I will let you know how it goes. She is at the big University 60 miles away because they are studying why she has such high cholesterol. She is 5'4 120 pounds, works out 3 or 4 times a week. Eats a lot better than me, but has 328 cholesterol with both her hdl and ldl at the same high levels. So, it may be good to get both of our fears out about that as well.

Will hold off on the "im not getting what I need from you part" will see where this potential intimacy between the two of us takes us.

Again, you all are the best, do not feel so alone in all of this.

Burt