Dear Twin, (((Aver))), Thanks for stopping by! I have been very VERY slow to post lately. But last Mon. I was feeling the need, on my anniv. and thank you so very much for your support. I felt this need to somehow acknowledge it. And I know you are right about everything.
Going OK at my brother's. He's been great. And it is great to be on this side of town, close to everyone & work. It's just not my own. And that's OK right now. I've been looking at houses too. But it's strictly window shopping until the legal stuff is done.
Bringing me to, the past week of this legal ping pong - H's L sent a not too nice letter about a wk & half ago, blah blah, I should be so happy H is willing to pay $500 more than I am on cr card, (I asked him to pay $1,500). I told my L Ok. I don't care anymore. We had to do some recalculating on the 401K division. Since I have more in my current one, & he had more in his old one, we have to adjust amt. he was going to give me.
It doesn't help that I misunderstood in June that we are to keep our own current 401K. I don't know why this is all so hard for me to understand. Not good at this D stuff. Not good at all.
It seems that as this drags out over time I get confused w the pieces parts, & so was thinking I was getting less than I actually would. But that's no reason for his L to send a nasty letter.
I have his license tag renewal (as his car is still in my name!) So I sent L an email saying I'll mail it on unless she tells I shouldn't.
And doesn't help that H's L is apparently MIA - my L said she can't get a hold of her, emails bounceback, no vm. Sounds shady to me.
Right now, hoping my L will get back to me & say my 401K calc. are right. Then we send our rev. agreement to his L. So it's a waiting game.
Just hanging in. I need to check in on you! I hope no news is good news & you are GALing your little rear off! Sending hugs & will check in soon. :-)
Not good at this D stuff. Not good at all. 
