Interesting little tid bit. So my W and D11 moved to Florida, and my D11 just started in a new school. She seemed excited and happy and volleyball team tryouts started the first day of school. After the week of tryouts, she made the team and was very happy - she's fitting in well and making friends, etc. My W was talking to me on Saturday morning about it and said something like " Yes - she's adjusting well and doing amazing, and I'm the one who's unhappy". I just about dropped the phone and wanted to say a million things - "come home to NY, come back to me, etc., etc.". I though for a few seconds and just said something like "Oh - things will get better, you'll be alright, things will be alright" and left it at that. First time I have detected a comment like that from her since all of this started. This would be the scratching of the surface maybe of a new stage in the MLC which I believe she is in. I will remain accessible if she wants to talk and will remain upbeat and encouraging to her, but I don't intend to push any of it - she needs to come to her own conclusion - if I am following my DBing correctly. Anyway - this was definitely a "different" vibe I got from her.
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010