It's understandable you are emotional but maybe it's not all because your H moved a few items out.
You went away on a weekend that has been a tradition for you and your H. You are about to make a huge life change by going back to work after staying home for a year. Both events are substantial things that can make your mind take pause.
I know you wanted a fling with zoobrew but IMO wondering why he hasn't texted you back and saying you "expect" a reply based on past behaviors is not "fling thinking". I just say this because you seem very vulnerable today.
You are in a very difficult position because your son is so little. I know it's not feasible to REALLY go dark on your H but in many ways it does prolong your pain. For example, you have been saying for some time (based on what your H said) that your yard would be fixed up and so far that has not been done. I would send your H a very business like message and tell him that you will need a firm timeline on when he plans to address his responsibilities at the house (yard). Your divorce will be final soon and things of that nature need to be wrapped up. Ask him for copies of all the estimates - depending on how your divorce decree is structured monies invested in the house will matter when it comes time to divide assets.
I would perhaps suggest you begin to take a far more business like approach with your H.
Do you really feel sad/emotional over the furniture or what it represents? You have a few major changes coming up (ex: going back to work, son going to daycare) so perhaps that is all tied in.
This is an odd phase indeed. Every move you make now is one that distances you from your H and the marriage you once had. Every move he makes distances HIM from you and the marriage you once had. I almost wonder if one or two weeks of getting LOTS of stuff done (him removing everything from the home, completing household projects) would be easier and not the slow torture the two of you sort have going on now. You are very agreeable with your H and I suppose that is good to a degree but maybe if you took a more firm/business like stance some of these ongoing issues would be a thing of the past.
