21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

The game was great! The Disney thing has caused a fight.

Email trail: This is the most she and I have communicated in weeks.


From W,
I don’t have a problem with you taking them but you cannot book/reserve anything until the divorce is final due to the financial retraining order.

To W,
I can not spend marital funds on non life necessities. I can always make reservations which can be cancelled up to 30 days before the trip with no financial obligation or fees. If you still have a qualm with that I will borrow non-marital funds from family to pay for it.

On another financial topic. The VISA credit card you have been using solely is a joint account and is overdue payment today. No I did not get a bill. The bank web page shows it's due today. Please take care of this and do not let my credit rating go down

From W,
You cannot use the credit card to book/make reservations. As far as the VISA, use the joint funds you took out of my bank account to pay for.


To W,
The joint funds out of "our" bank account. If it was your bank account I couldn't have moved anything. Your paychecks are also joint marital funds and can pay for your own hair coloring and auto oil changes.
I made the reservations.


My wife is welding a lot of power. She is not only interpreting the court order for "life's necessities" she is also making exceptions to the judge's order by telling me to pay off the credit card for her non-life necessities like $72 hair coloring, etc.

Chuck66