How about just being normal if I only knew what that felt like...
forget normal, be the best Pookie you can. that's success.
You won't have the ability to "see" her and the situations if you are holding in negative emotions - anger, fear, resentment etc. They cloud your vision and how you act. You can't love her until you really love yourself - you can't give away what you don't have. This builds your confidence and the ability to show compassion and empathy (real validation.) So my point is learning "techniques" isn't as effective as learning what love, connection, intimacy, dialouge and attraction are. Having this wisdom allows you to love and connect in a powerful way.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
