well it didnt go down great. Yesterday the boys and I invited W to go bike riding. Something we used to do prior to having kids. She responded about an hour later saying she didnt want to go because it would be to hard to leave. I said Ok. she said just tell that she had to help grandma. they were very disappointed. Last night when she called to tell the boys goodnight, She asked where i would be this week? I told i have to be here in the house, because work has me in town. She got all mad saying i should have told her...etc. I said i tried talking to you but you never wanted to talk on the phone or in person. She just kept saying i'm not doing anything she asks. I told her i'm here in the marriage wanting to help and heal and I shouldn't leave. I said lets try and heal, by trying something different. She just says she is past trying stage. she keeps saying she cannot ever get over it, and she doesnt want to spend the rest of her life depressed even if the boys are happy. IT shouldnt be at the cost of her sanity. I'm just waiting to get served... I just dont understand how she wants to do it all on her on. She gets out of work at 415, has to go get the youngest from daycare. then our oldest gets off the bus at 5:00 she will never make it. stayed up last night most of the night thinking if not being here anymore would be worth it...
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
