Need some encouragement

[kissak]

Thanks LS. It is hard, but Im patient. Things looked better already today.

He did go off Friday night. I was up at 3:30am and texted him because he werent home yet. He told me he had to take some guys home that had been drinking. He said he was sorry for worrying me, but he would be home shortly.

Last night he called me into the bedroom, asked me if I felt like gossiping! lol, thats a first! BUT I said sure I found out why he was texting so much! It werent just one person texting him, it was alot of the exOW friends and people that knew her and her BF....by the way her and her bf didnt get back together...seems that she dumped him one morning and he had NO CLUE nothing was wrong. Supposedly she wanted him to marry her and move away. HE said he werent getting married, so she dumped him and the very next day had a new guy...someone she worked with. Seems she had something going on with him all along.

He is better off without her for sure, but all these people were asking my H what was wrong with her! I asked him why they were asking him, and he said she tells people that my H and her are still good friends and talk all the time about everything!! My H said he never talks to her. He cant stand to even be around her. I know he was telling the truth about it. THis OW is just crazy!! My H sees this now. Im so glad he does.

Seems this is alot of what was going on the last week or so. He is still having issues with some things he is working through. He goes to therapy next week. I was hoping it was today, but its not.

Im feeling better today. I think my H feels better because he can talk about it now. I think he just didnt want to bring it up before.