PS This is the last full day of FIL's visit. I've managed to avoid him all week. Today H returns to work and tells me last night that FIL would like to visit with S today. This means I would have to hook up with FIL to give him time with S5.
Should I do it? I really don't like FIL = more for what he has created. Most of H's emotionally and verbally abusive tendencies come from this man, although now that he is older, he hasn't been too offensive to me personally. Im torn between wanting to let S see grandpa while he's here one last time while he's out here (he lives on the other side of the country and comes out only once a year) and not wanting to see him at all - and privately resenting H for assuming that I would be ok with hanging out with him. H is the one who wanted to be separated, I feel like he can handle his side of the family. I would never ask him to hang out with my parents and S.
Also, they were gone all weekend. I agreed to it, so it's ok, but then H asks if my parents can watch S tonight as well - during his time. I couldn't believe it. I said no way. You have been gone three days, your son needs to see you. Then he says "oh, ok, you're right." How can he be so insensitive? Am I overreacting?
