New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

I have Labor Day weekend coming up soon. I have decided to call W and tell her that I'll be coming up that weekend to see the boys...I do miss the boys terribly. I really want to be a better parent, even with 900 miles separating me from the boys. I figure if I show my willingness thru my actions, my W will see how serious I am to be a good parent.

Besides, there is nothing legal(divorce decree or separation agreement) that prevents me from NOT going. So I believe I have all the right to see the boys even if W and I are separated physically by 900 miles...

What if W doesn't want me to go up there to see the boys, do I still go?

Any input anyone?

JR